When Lily walked in, she started to complain: ‘My ex-boyfriend Robert was going to take me to a nice restaurant on my birthday, but his ex-girlfriend said it is too expensive. So he cancelled it.‘   I was totally confused. ‘Your ex? and his ex?’  She said: ‘Oh, we got together for 20 years, and Susan was his girlfriend before me.’ 

‘They are still friends and we are still friends. Robert is much older than I am, but I am here all alone, so I consider him as my family here. That’s why I called him to take me out on my birthday.‘  I asked: ‘Then, what Susan has anything to do with this? the ex-ex?’ ‘She is always around! Always wants his attention even long after they broker up.’ 

Lily added: ‘It is so unfair, I consider him as my family here. I live in my own house by myself, I also have a little vacation house. At first, Robert told me he would will his house to me, now he willed his house to Susan.’ I asked curiously, ‘Are they together now?’  ‘No! they are just friends! He is in his 80’s now.‘ 

I told Lily: ‘Let’s do age regression to find out why you were attracted to him. You know, he is nearly 30 years older. We then go back to see what happened in your past life.’ In age regression, Lily said: ‘I felt I knew him. He looked so familiar and I knew I must have known him.’

I then guided Lily passing the time, getting into one of her past lives. She landed on a beach. ‘I am a little boy, my dad and my mom are next to me. We are having picnic on the beach.’ ‘Great! Is your home far away?’ ‘No, it is a beach house. I am in a well-off family.’ I then guided Lily, the little boy, back to his home.

‘I got back home, I saw my sister at courtyard…. Oh, she is my sister in this life.’ I then guided Lily, the little boy, to the dining room.  ‘We are eating European type foods, there is a young housemaid serving us.‘ I asked Lily are her parents related to her in this life? ‘My mom became my adoptive mother this life. But my dad isn’t.‘ 

I then guided Lily, the little boy, to his adult life. ‘I have a wife and two children. We live in the city.‘ I asked: ‘Not in that beach house any more?’ ‘I moved to the city and started my business and my own family. My parents are still living in that old house.’ ‘Are your wife  and children related to you in this life?’ Lily replied: ‘No, I don’t see that.’ 

I guided Lily, the grown-up boy, to his dining room. ‘The same housemaid is cooking at kitchen. My parent sent her here to serve my own family. … she has a son … he is so jealous about me .. you know, he thinks he is son of a housemaid, and I have everything … Oh, the housemaid is Robert and her son is Susan.’  

After Lily was fully awake, we talked about it. She said: ‘Now I totally understand why Susan always wants Robert’s attention, like a little boy to his mom, and why Robert willed his house to her, like a mom to her son.’ 

Months later, Lily shared her experience in this session at a spiritual gathering. ‘Only one session, and you got healed?’ Someone asked her. ‘Yes. Knowing reality in different time slot really helps me detangle the knots in my mind for years.’